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A Gentle Learning Space for Sensitive Kids and Teens

Low-pressure live online classes and activities for kids and teens who don’t thrive in traditional environments. Grounded in self-directed learning, we invite kids to follow their interests, choose how they participate, and learn at their own pace. Learn, create, or play in a calm, emotionally supportive space with patient, understanding instructors—where connection comes first.

No pressure

Flexible scheduling

Flexible last minute cancellations

Our Philosophy

GentleLearning.space is a gentle, supportive online community where sensitive kids and teens can explore learning at their own pace, rebuild confidence, and feel truly accepted. Our live online classes and activities are led by patient instructors who understand anxiety, sensitivity, and demand-avoidance, and prioritize emotional support and self-directed learning.

Focus on emotional support, autonomy, and self-direction.

Compassionate last-minute cancellation policy options (as set by each instructor). No judgment or explanation needed.

Art, crafts, music, math, board games, coding, dance, anime, DnD, gaming, and much more - all guided by your child’s interests.

Flexible formats: 1:1, small groups, whole-family, parent-child, or self-paced sessions.

No subscriptions! Pay per class (or a bundle of classes).

The Science & Heart Behind It

Why This Matters

Every sensitive kid deserves a space where they can learn and show up based on their capacity, free from pressure and expectations.

Great minds don’t fit molds, they flourish when learning feels safe

Kids who don't fit the mold (and their parents) are often judged and misunderstood. Yet these same minds are some of the most innovative and creative thinkers who drive society forward. Our goal is to create a space free of pressure and judgment, with support and understanding, and where the beautiful minds thrive and build skills at their own pace.

Self-Directed Learning

Self-directed learning means kids learn best when they have a sense of ownership and the freedom to follow what genuinely interests them. Instead of pushing through a fixed script, we focus on curiosity, connection, and supportive guidance. For many sensitive kids, this approach lowers pressure and helps learning happen naturally through meaningful projects, play, and real-life problem solving.

A low-pressure, flexible approach that honors PDA and unique nervous system needs

Demand avoidance isn’t defiance - it’s a nervous system response. Sensitive kids often feel things more deeply, noticing tone, energy, and unspoken expectations. The same sensitivity that makes them exceptionally intelligent, creative, and perceptive can also lead to overwhelm or challenging behaviors. We honor each child’s unique mind and capacity in the moment, offering flexible, low-pressure activities and classes that meet them exactly where they are.

What is PDA?

PDA stands for Pathological Demand Avoidance (sometimes described as Pervasive Drive for Autonomy). It's a nervous system response where everyday demands—especially those that feel controlling, pressured, or expected—can trigger a strong stress reaction.

People with a PDA profile often have a higher need for autonomy. When that autonomy feels threatened, the nervous system can shift into a fight/flight/freeze response.

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For Instructors

Teach at GentleLearning

We welcome patient, curious and supportive instructors who love working with and mentoring sensitive kids and teens.

Flexible: set your own schedule, prices, what activities or lessons you want to lead, and how you want to lead them.

No Formal Teaching Credentials Required: If you can facilitate a warm, supportive session, you can be a great fit.

New to PDA? No problem - most people are. We're looking for instructors who lead with curiosity, respect autonomy, and stay grounded and flexible when a child says "no" or can't engage. We'll provide onboarding, practical tools, and ongoing support.

Make a Real Difference: Kids who don't fit the mold are often incredibly creative. Help them feel seen, supported, and free to grow.

Interested in teaching at GentleLearning?

Share what you love. Teach art, crafts, music, math, science, coding, dance, anime. Lead a fun activity - DnD, gaming, knitting, paper-mâché, cooking - anything you’re passionate about! We’re looking for a diverse mix of activities.

We are at an early stages of building this community. If you are potentially interested in joining as an instructor, fill out the form and a quick questionnaire to get in touch with us and help us shape this platform together.

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